March 25, 2004

Conversations with Jake

Talked to Jake today.

A few things come to mind to share which I will in a moment...But I wanted to tell you that we talked extensively about the website. He was very excited that so many people were getting these posts and getting to hear about his experiences in Africa. I think it made him feel close to everyone while he is so far away. I also read him all of the comments that those of you have written and he was really touched by them. So keep the comments coming, Jake will get to hear them! Thank you.

Field Trip...
This weekend, he heads to southern Malawi for a 'field trip' with the other volunteers. Field trip? More like safari! It is expected that they will see elephants and rhinos while there. As you can imagine, he is really looking forward to it.

Language...He says he is doing well learning the language. There are only 4 out of 16 volunteers learning the dialect that he is learning and it isn't spoken in Dedza where he is currently residing. He can't practice with his host family. This makes practicing difficult, in general...But, he told me he studies for about an hour in the evening when he gets home and isn't concerned come May when he moves to his village where he'll be speaking it full time. I've heard that he's pretty good at learning languages ;)

Harmonica...As our sister Jessica wrote in a previous entry, he plays the harmonica to the kids in the village...apparently, they love it. Jake told me one night, they were knocking at his door to play. He started singing some lyrics...he thinks it was "I want you to stay!" Well, the kids started singing it that evening and he still hears it being sung by the little ones in the village. I enjoyed hearing that.

Whacked out dreams...He's been taking medicine to prevent malaria and it causes vivid, whacky dreams...He has to stay on the medicine for the entire 2 years if he wants to prevent milaria, but hopefully the dreams and the "weird" feeling from the medicine that he and the other volunteers have described will soon subside.

Health Volunteer close-by...
When he moves to his final destination, there is a health voluteer who will be about 20 minutes from Jake. Good news, yes...Bad news, she has some kind of strange, bumpy bacerial stuff on her face right now...Grrrrrrrrreat! Lucky Jake.

I asked him "what is the worst thing so far jake?" He said, "The poverty, particulary the poverty I've witnessed in my host family. The first few nights that I sat down to have dinner with them was especially difficult. There is such sadness in my host father's eyes. He can't provide much for his family. His children's clothes are torn, they don't have much food. He is tired. His wife is tired."
I asked him 'what is the best thing so far jake?" He said, "The smiles...particularly the smile from my host father. Though I've done nothing yet, he thanks me for being here. He thanks me for being his friend."

Jake said truthfully he isn't sure how much he has to offer them, enviornmentally speaking, education wise... but he looks at himself as a "messenger of hope"... He wants to work side by side with them, learning together and bringing them hope and awareness at the same time. If anyone can do it, he can.

Peace and love-Sarah

Posted by sarah at March 25, 2004 11:57 PM
Comments

Just got word of this site from Califon Dad. Great job and great to hear of Jake's adventures and work. Please make sure he knows we are wishing him well from upstate NY. I'll get a note off to him soon but also wanted to let you guys know you're doing a great job keeping us posted. Look forward to hearing great things. Thanks.

Posted by: Uncle Jim at March 26, 2004 12:52 AM

Jake: WE weep with you.

Posted by: califon dad at March 26, 2004 03:01 AM

Tears fill my eyes as I read this note from Sarah. It has just hit me that Jake is so far away from all of us. Jake, you are making tremendous sacrifices and I am so honored that you are my brother.

JEssica

Posted by: Jessica at March 26, 2004 01:35 PM

Uncle Jim,
Thanks for checking in!! I will send Jake your best wishes next time I talk to him. I'm sure he'd love a letter from you.
Sarah

Posted by: sarah at March 26, 2004 03:36 PM

Some thoughts....

How can I ever complain about my life, when I have so much.

Is there anything we can do to help these people?

Forget about Superman, James Bond, The Incredible Hulk.....Jake is my new super hero. Jake you are amazing.

I can't wait to read the next chapter in the life of malawijake. Keep those Emails coming!!!!

Posted by: Sandy Wilson at March 26, 2004 03:44 PM

as i recall Jake is always joyful.
it is a difficult task for him to keep up good mood in his house and his new "family"
keep it up Jake!

Posted by: Aidas at March 26, 2004 04:04 PM

I am so jealous that you can be so calm facing powerty. I couldn't do that. Hugs and kisses...

Posted by: Egle at March 26, 2004 05:54 PM

Sandy,

Sarah asked Jake that same question, "How can we help these people". Jake says that he's going to look into ideas. He's wary of projects that try to send food or items as they don't teach someone how to get it next time. He says he might be interested in starting a little project of his own over there. Imagine how much we could help if his host father is making $1.20 a month!

Sarah or I will keep you updated...

Donny

Posted by: Donny at March 26, 2004 08:54 PM

Jake You might be a small Axe in a large place, even if you Stand Alone, Fussin and Fighting, You live in the Rainbow Country now, and your Three little Birds will come to help you my brother and pal. I miss you and Love you Bob Marley

Posted by: Jason at March 28, 2004 03:35 PM

I read about Jake and think to myself, "Why couldn't there be more people like Jake?" I have to admit that pondering this question brings forth some sadness. However, I then realize how special a man, a person Jake is, and how fortunate I feel to have met him. Men like Jake change the world. Cheers Jake! I can't wait to see you someday.

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